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Questions We Must Ask Ourselves if We Claim to be Christians

I’ve been asking myself a number of questions for the past four weeks.  The pile keeps growing., but I’m okay with that… I have a lot that needs to change.

Confronted with the reality that I need to conform to the image of Christ, my response to these questions seem to form a decent indicator of where I’m at spiritually.

Eventually, I think I’ll develop a specific set of questions to ask myself every day- such a reflection would provide decent ‘metrics’ for progress (if you can call it that) on my walk with Jesus.  I guess you could call it ‘Conscious Christianity.’

questions

Relationships

Am I being intentional about thinking of others as better than myself?

Have I reconciled with everyone that I’ve ever hurt?

Who have I been withholding forgiveness from?

Am I bowing low in humility?

Did I pray enough before confronting that relationship conflict?

Do my times with friends end up being times of worship and growth, or just fun and play?

Service

Why are so few Christians willing to serve humbly?

Why do I get bitter at others when I serve and they don’t?

Do I know any poor people?  Hurt people?  People who are living in the darkness?

How can I be salt and light to this city?

Marriage

Am I leading my wife closer to Jesus?

Can I truly say “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord”?

Have I been seeking God’s will for my family?

Am I relentlessly destroying any and all sin and mindless diversion in our marriage?

Have I laid down my selfishness and done something that she would like to do?

Did I take the time to humbly serve my wife today?

Is Jesus still number one? Truly?

Rest

Am I working at a sustainable pace?

Did I take a true Sabbath this week?

Have I taken the time to rest my body?

Do I need a change of place and a change of pace in order to get a change of perspective?

Money

What am I working for?  Who am I working for?

Does how I spend my paycheque reflect my allegiance to Jesus Christ?

Sure I tithe, but if someone drew a pie chart of how I spent the other 90%, would I go straight to hell?

What do I REALLY need? Anything at all besides Jesus?

Am I building a white picket fence life? Am I getting comfy and cozy?

Am I settling down on earth? Have I forgotten than this is NOT my home? Have I forgotten heaven?

Glory

What am I doing for my glory?

Am I building a monument to self? Am I building an empire?

What am I doing completely for God’s fame and glory?

What am I doing in secret?

Who is my life really all about?

Author: Jay Brock

Jay Brock is the founding blogger of SexRev.org. He's a world traveler who is currently preparing for a move to Vancouver Island for a church plant internship. He and his wife Michelle blog regularly about sex trafficking and living your dreams. Jay hopes to someday become an author and church leader, and would like to have eight children if he can convince Michelle to do so!

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  1. James Says:

    thanks for this kick in the ass Jay!

  2. Jay Brock Says:

    Lol… thank Jesus!

  3. jk Says:

    Jay, do you have an ongoing list of questions and keep adding to it?
    Also, I am a little overwhelmed by the number of questions but have a question for you. If you were to pick one from every category that have hit you the most in the past few months, what would they be? And if you had to pick one from each category for me, what would they be?

  4. James Says:

    ok, whats his blog url?

  5. Jay Brock Says:

    LOL!

  6. Jay Brock Says:

    I honesty couldn’t say dude. Sorry that you feel overwhelmed! I hope it doesn’t look like a list of rules though- grace washes over everything, for sure.