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10 Self Disciplines to Cultivate by Gordon MacDonald
I’m a starter. Not a finisher. 
An ideas guy. Not a git-er-done guy.
I like philosophy and concepts and reading and thinking.
Not planning and details and technical writing and instructions.
But at certain points, the rubber needs to meet the road, right?
As Thoreau said, I need to “put foundations under my dreams in the clouds.”
Which brings me to a talk I heard this week at Willowcreek Community Church in South Barrington, Illinois.
I was there as part of a group of leaders from Canada, at a weeklong leadership intensive called “Partnering to Prevail.” We had classes from sun up to sun down and it was brilliant all over.
This particular talk was by a 71-year-old chap named Gordon MacDonald, entitled “Self Leadership“. He was a great guy. 45 year church leader. Like a wise old grandpa. He was talking about discipline. I took notes.
One thing that really stood out was a quote from William Barclay, who was describing Samuel Taylor Coleridge…
“Coleridge is the supreme tragedy of indiscipline; never did so great a mind produce so little.
He left Cambridge University to join the army; he left the army because he could not rub down a horse; he returned to Oxford and left without a degree.
He began a paper called The Watchman which lived for ten editions and then died. It has been said of him: “he lost himself in visions of work to be done, that always remained to be done. Coleridge had every poetic gift but one- the gift of sustained and concentrated effort”.
In his head and in his mind he had all kinds of books, as he himself said, “completed, save for transcription. I am on the eve”, he says, of sending to the press two complete volumes”. But the books were never composed outside Coleridge’s mind; because he would not face the discipline of sitting down to write them out.
No one ever reached eminence and no one having reached it ever maintained it, without discipline.”
Dang. He had my attention, because it sounded too much like me.
He then shared with us 10 disciplines that he thought we all need to cultivate as leaders…
Physical- rest, exercise, nutrition
Intellectual- “do some heavy thinking”
Emotional-
Relational- “leadership is only as lonely as you let it be.”
Moral
Ego- walk humbly
Giftedness- “keep developing yourself to be the best possible- don’t just get by on current skill… Larry Bird took 300 shots in warm ups, even after decades of practice”
Financial
Spiritual
Convictability
He suggested that if we practice these disciplines intentionally, we’ll never stop creating real change in the communities that we lead.
A wise fellow indeed.
I’ll be sharing my class notes over the next week or so.
Next blog post: The Willow youth pastors put a new spin on prayer.

December 8th, 2010 at 12:46 am
Very interesting, and challenging, post.
Though provoking: "the discipline of sitting down to write them all out."
Steven Pressfield, "The War of Art" - SUCH a good read on the topic of work.
Art, he argues, is not in the grandoise ideas or dreams of a man or woman, but in the day to day, pure undiluted slog of it all. Find joy in that slog, and you have something worth doing!
December 8th, 2010 at 2:49 am
Jay,
Here is a quote from a worksheet you and I set up while you were here in Texas:
"Create a simple plan and stick to it until you kill it or it kills you.". As I read today's post, I could hear in my head (Way to go, eh!) you motivating me to finish what Istart. I have developed this formula I remind myself often: simplicity + consistency = success. It works every time. Thanks for the motivation, brother.
December 8th, 2010 at 6:35 am
Hey Jay,
Thanks for that little diddy on self-discipline. what a shame to see someone go their ENTIRE LIFE without learning the practice of self-discipline. I used to think it was just something that happened as you get older, it was something I would work on next-time. Then as the years went by, I realized that self-discipline happens every day, every moment. One hard block by one hard block, it is built over time. There isn't one moment or decision that doesn't shape the way the building looks. Every single brick is visible in the end.
I'm looking forward to hearing more, because I know, and God knows that self-discipline is one of my biggest struggles.
December 10th, 2010 at 7:00 pm
Lol Jer, I'm glad to "diddy" for you anytime
I really like that idea too- building something a brick at a time. I can see the end result…better get started!
December 10th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Man, that's a good quote
(but seriously, I'm blushing). Solid formula, by the way. I heart simplicity.
And nice usage of the word "eh"!
December 10th, 2010 at 7:13 pm
But… that's so boring! I guess we only see the end result (ie that book or piece of art or great business) and assume overnight success. Why does it have to be so hard?!
I hope "The War of Art" is 1/10th as long as The Art of War. Then I will read it.
Also… Hemingway used to write for 3-5 hours every morning without fail, for decades. He did good work.